An object in motion stays in motion. That’s one of the few things I retained from my high school physics class. I’m fairly certain I was too busy flirting with the guy next to me to learn the rest of Newton’s laws, but at least I learned something.
Newton’s first law can be stated as:
An object in at rest stays at rest and an object in motion stays in motion with the same speed and in the same direction unless acted upon by an unbalanced force.
Couch potatoes tend to stay couch potatoes unless an unbalanced force comes around and shakes things up. We’re creatures of habit and we like to coast, but it’s when we stretch ourselves that we start creating a life we enjoy.
You don’t have to know exactly where you’re going or what you want to do with the rest of your life. With the exception of my cousin who has wanted to be a pediatric doctor since she was at least 9, very few of us have that kind of clarity. (She recently graduated medical school and is absolutely incredible!)
For the rest of us lay people, it’s totally okay and normal to feel a little unsure about our general life path. Just start moving in a certain direction, it doesn’t matter which one! The important thing is to begin something, anything. Put one metaphorical foot in front of the other and get going.
At the very least you’ll learn what you don’t want – a valuable lesson in itself. Alternatively, you may stumble upon something wonderful you never knew existed, but only if you get off your couch and put yourself out there.
In Big Magic, Elizabeth Gilbert writes about being devoted to inquisitiveness.
“Curiosity is accessible to everyone. Passion can seem intimidatingly out of reach at times – a distant tower of flame, accessible only to geniuses and to those who are specially touched by God. But curiosity is a milder, quieter, more welcoming, and more democratic entity.”
So ask yourself: What am I interested in? It doesn’t have to be profound or the solution to world hunger, it just has to peak your interest.
Go on a scavenger hunt and follow what makes you curious. Take that dance class, plant a garden, start learning another language. You do you.
What makes you curious?